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You Pay Child Support Regardless Of Your Relationship With The Mother
It does not matter if you were tricked, seduced, lied to or conned. If you sired the child, you pay and pay and pay. While women have complete control over whether they become mothers, men have no control over paternity other than complete abstinence. You can not opt out of paternity. So much for gender equality.
New Family Obligations
Having a new family and or a new child does not change your child support amount.
What If You Do Not Pay?
If you do not pay your child support, the wrath of the entire sexist, feminist controlled judicial and jail system will come down on you.
You can have your drivers licence revoked even if you drive for a living
You can have your passport cancelled denying your charter right to travel
You can be sentenced to six months in jail and unlike common criminals, you will not get early release or parole or probation. You will serve every single second of your sentence. The only way to get out is to pay whatever child support is supposedly due. This is debtor's prison. The only thing missing so far, is the rack and thumb screws.
And while you are in jail, your child support payments are still due and mounting up.
How Much Spousal Support Will You Pay?
The amount of spousal support is not set in stone like child support. It may be set so that you and your wife each have about the same amount of income regardless of the fact that she has never earned it.
The courts seem to think that women are entitled to stay at the same standard of living as they had when married, even though that standard no longer exists.
In many ways, spousal support smacks of prostitution.
Basically this entitles women to a continuing free ride at the expense of men.
In theory, a judge will review all of the economic factors that affect each party, with particular emphasis on the effect of the marriage and the divorce on the parties' financial circumstances, then try to apportion the family income in a fair way between the spouses.
In reality, women usually win. Men pay.
Since when is housework at minimum wage equal to the work of say a man who earns substantially more?
There were even cases in the UK where sperm donors were ordered to pay child support.